While it is possible to overcome many of these, the tradeoffs exist by default and can be seen over and over.

Validating a helpless / victim narrative vs. cutting against it.
1. Ex., you should just do the thing that will get you what you want - your excuses be damned. Makes people feel invalidated.
Conformity / Tradition / Security vs. Self Direction / Freedom / Novelty / Challenge
Benevolence / Universalism / Inclusiveness / Communal vs. Power / Achievement / Dominance / Systematicity
1. Between sources of meaning
Love & Family vs. Mission & Goals
Agreeableness vs. Disagreeableness
Introversion vs. Extroversion
Openness vs. Conscientiousness
Conscientiousness vs. Creativity
1. Accountability vs. Creativity
2. Measurability vs. Creativity
3. Regimentedness vs. Creativity
4. Consistency vs. Creativity
Vulnerability vs. Conviction
Wartime CEO vs. Peacetime CEO
Freedom vs. Cohesion
Yin (Zen, Alignment) vs Yang (Force, Effort)
Bias vs. Variance
Exploration vs. Exploitation
Simplicity vs. Complexity
Loneliness vs Freedom
Thinking vs. Doing
Authenticity vs. Self-Awareness
Big Picture vs. Detail Oriented
Seriousness vs. Playfulness
Literal vs. Emotional
Ego vs. Vulnerability
1. Conviction vs. Vulnerability
2. Action vs. Vulnerability
3. Sphere of Control vs. Vulnerability
Inadequacy sense vs. Understanding / Acclimation
Attention vs. Awareness
Compartmentalization vs. Integration
Humbleness vs. Arrogance
1. Groundedness vs. Expansive Vision
Stability vs Growth
Systemizing vs. Empathizing
1. (Thing orientedness vs. people orientedness)
Fox vs Hedgehog
High vs low expectations
Indoctrination vs. Ungroundedness, taking assumptions vs. questioning assumptions
Power vs. Empathy
Living in the Now vs. in the Past, Present and Future
Open Mindedness vs. Assertiveness
Judgement and Acceptance
1. Tough Love as paradoxical